Posts Tagged ‘a wedding in a dream’

the-flowA wise person once asked a series of questions, in regards to something that was upsetting someone else. He asked, “Will it matter in a month?” Then, “Will it matter in a year?” Then, “Will it matter in 10 years?” Ultimately getting to, “Will it matter after you’re gone?” At some point along this line, the answer has to be, “No, it won’t.” Which points to the fact that, in the greater scheme, it probably doesn’t matter even now. That’s a perspective that can keep us in the flow of life. (At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)

John: And in the first dream, my aunt—first time I’ve had my aunt in there—my aunt procrastinated getting into her dress, that she was going to wear as being part of going to a wedding that’s to be held.

But because she kept waiting until the last minute, she doesn’t have a dress. Everyone is dressed up, but her. And when she thinks she can just now suddenly dress up, I see her and say, out of surprise at this very last minute, “So now you’re going to get serious.”

She asks if I was able to get a dress, as if she had instructed me to bring a dress from her home or something that she had—or to pick it up anyway—that had been sent. She asked me about that, but I forgot. So she just accepts that I forgot even. She doesn’t hold that against me. And had I not forgotten, she could have worn this dress and it would have been okay.

But as it is, she has no dress to wear. And I don’t even know if she has another dress, anyway. That could all be wishful thinking. If she had a dress. This might have been all that there was. And I’m realizing this in light of what is unfolding.

In other words, what’s unfolding is a wedding scenario, in which she is out of sync. And I suppose, you know, I could have remembered to have picked up a dress for her, but I don’t even remember her telling me to do that. Although this is awkward for her, it will not matter in the future.

That’s what’s interesting. Deep down I know this isn’t going to matter. There’s something new, or something that is going on, that is unfolding, that goes beyond this idea of the wedding. And over time, she’s going to be fine.

So I know that it is possible that this opportunity may never come again. This opportunity to somehow or another—in other words, there’s something to evolve, and there’s that whole wedding thing is not, even though that there’s an oddity, there’s an oddity about what is taking place that one could get caught up in, in terms of the this or the that’s, that are there on an appearance purpose basis, that if you could set all of that aside to see what’s triculating and what’s actually being communicated by the fact that there is a different change in the flow, in which something is even able to accept, not complying with the norm. Deep down, you get a sense that there is something deeper that’s trying to unfold.

And that’s why it’s okay in terms of this person not quite being up to protocol for the wedding, is because what is evolving is going to make this idea of what people enjoy and think is important, is going to make it irrelevant.

And so, it’s kind of like everything that’s unfolding is always okay. And because the future that makes that okay and acceptable, because the future is going to be that which is unrelatable to how things are at this point in time. So, that’s that dream.

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spiritual_growth_hormone_by_rozrrIn this imagery, Jeane appears to be getting married and also moving house. Symbolically, marriage speaks of bringing something together or making a connection. And moving points to a shift because a house or home in a dream represents what we are living in, or represents us as a life. Then we can look at the other details of the dream and ask, are there impediments in the way for making this connection and shift? In this case, the answer is yes. (At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)

Jeane: So in my next dream, I’m going to get married, or am considering getting married, but it feels like if we’re having this, the reception or whatever is being held in kind of a circular building outside and they have valets that come and park the car. And the way that they park the car is they take it from you and then they back it up into a space in kind of a circle around the building. And I’m kind of being a little fussy that they park my car near the front so that it’s easy to leave since it’s my wedding, or reception, whatever it is.

And then it feels like I’ve gone from there to this kind of small… initially it looks a little like a trailer, but it’s been very nicely fixed up by my husband and his family, complete with a little high chair because I must be pregnant.

It’s almost like the family was a little anxious about whether I would go through with the wedding or not. It’s like I had to kind of feel comfortable about how the place had been decorated, even though it’s a very small, very simple space with wood floors.

Then when I look around I notice the space has changed and instead of just being this kind of  almost like one room, very plain, but very nice space with the wooden floors and everything, I now see that there are steps that go down that lead to a second area that has a couch that faces a little fireplace. And it’s no longer just a trailer, but it’s an apartment that I had been renting in a building where a lot of people rented apartments that kind of ran into the next apartment.

There’s almost like some division between them, but we’re all shifting, we’re all shifting units over one because the landlord’s remodeling. And my unit still looks the same, but I’m looking around at what’s happening to other people around me and there were two people that were rooming together and the person that originally had the place is going to be keeping it, but the other one is moving on.

I will have this place but I’ve still moved over one from where I used to live. I think that’s about all I remember of that dream.

John: The dream is indicating that in order for you to make the connection, or the marriage, or whatever, to bring it through that there’s a shift that has to happen. In other words, however it was that you had the appearance of how things are, in terms of how you are, in relationship to where you lived, or the house perception, so to speak, of yourself, that has shifted into something different.

You’re rejecting something that had been put together and shaped in a particular way that, for some reason, bothers you now. Is it a rejection, or a realization? You have a shift that you can make, or you can sit in something that has run some sort of test of time in terms of its value or utility to you, and if you continue to accept how that is in terms of how it’s put together, how it’s shaped, this will keep you from shifting.

So, what the dream is trying to say is that there is an attention that you need to catch up with that you need to place your attention upon, that you’d be inclined to miss if you overly indulge in the environment that you’re in, if you tend to see the scenario of that environment as comfortable. There’s a part of you that isn’t comfortable in it.

The dream isn’t indicating that you’ve precisely figured out why it is that it’s not comfortable, or why it is that something is off. And you could very easily disregard what you note as off but, if you do, there also seems to be at hand here something that has to do with a shift.

It’s as if the shift won’t happen if you don’t come to grips with whatever it is that is holding something off.

The first dream kind of drew you forward, but that kind of being drawn out like that led to you coming across and discovering that there was something that you’d lost. In other words, your identity now is stirred up.

So in that dream you seemed to be asking the question, why is it that you’re doing what you’re doing? Something isn’t quite coming through for you, that’s what it is. Something isn’t quite coming through for you.

It’s like saying your feminine nature needs to hear a memo and it’s come to the point where you need to get that memo better than what has been happening so far. It needs to come through clear for identity purposes. And in the second dream, in terms of being able to make the shift that is necessary at this point in time. So there is some memo you’re meant to get.

Hmmm. And of course, if there’s some memo that you’re meant to get that throws the responsibility upon me in some fashion, because I represent that masculine energy that pulls something down as a clarity that then awakens something from a hearing center that completes the loop, or the process, by which then something is energetically entwined and correlated.

But I seem to be not quite getting that memo, either. If I’m not seeing it, how can it be possible for you to see it, would be my attitudinal response if I were to look at myself as having a role in relationship to your process.

In other words, we’re both being challenged in terms of something that is there on an identity level, that isn’t being recognized. Only your dream takes it one step further and indicates that this is important, that there is something about this in which what we are caught up in is holding us back.

We need to subtly recognize whatever it is that we’re caught up in, and realize that some slight letting go or whatever that is, there is a shift that’s necessary that we’re meant to catch at this point in time.

This is a real stretch here. What is it that we’re not getting that we’re meant to get?

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It’s interesting, all the current cultural obsession with zombies and vampires, i.e., human beings interacting with the undead. In a spiritual journey, it can seem just such a battle between fostering our own inner light, and being drawn in, or seduced, by all the aspects of the culture that have no light in them, which can keep us from fulfilling our human purpose.

Jeane’s dream has this epic battle: zombies, aliens, a flood, and a wedding. What does it all mean? John explains. (At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)

Jeane: Near the tail end of one dream that I’ve kind of forgotten, I go to check into a hotel and I need to get a room, and I have to phone you. But it feels like I can’t get a room because you’re going to be joining me at some point in the future, I think on the third of a certain month, and we’re not married so… I think that’s the scenario, something like that anyway.

You tell me to go ahead and have the woman at the hotel arrange for us to get married. I’m not too worried about it because it feels like it’s just a civil ceremony or something they’ll do right there at the hotel. I even go around the counter and there’s a big window display there and it has some rings in it. I think it has a ruby ring or something, so you just tell me to go ahead and get that, and charge it to your card and have her set up the whole thing for the third or whenever it is you’re coming into town. I tell her all of that. And that seems to be the end of that dream.

I go to a house where I think you and I live, but you’re out of town of course, with some other people, and I’ve gone up and it’s got several layers, and I look out in the street at some point and I see that there are people out in the street that come and stuff something into people’s mouths and it changes them into these zombie-like creatures. Not zombies like chase you or eat you, but they want to make you just like them.

I see this happening so I see this happening so I quickly go and round up the people that work with you, and relatives, and anybody that I know and get them to come into my house. And then I start boarding up the house so that the zombie-type creatures that are trying to make everybody like them can’t catch us and force us to be like them.

But some people I can mobilize better than others. Some just stand around and look out the window kind of like they’re a little dull about the whole thing, and so I have to try to get others to help me go around and board up windows, or make sure all the doors are locked, and I’ve got a lot of levels of this house to take care of to do that.

At some point I have to get them to help me to bolt the door, or put pressure on the door, so someone can’t break in. There’s one area of the house finally that I go to, and I have to go out on a roof-like area. And there are some zombie people that have come, and a couple of the duller people, I think a young woman and an older woman, they’re out there with me, and the zombies get them and change them because they just are not swift enough or quick enough to know they shouldn’t let them get near them and stuff something in their mouths that changes them into being like them. And then they try to chase me, and the other people too.

Because I had gone out and done that, then I’m trying to get away outside and I go down to get the car and my car, I guess, is in a garage, and when I look there’s water flooding the street and it’s running even into the garage and it’s kind of icy too.

And so some cars will come, and once in a while a car will make it. It’ll go really fast through the water and even though this water is pushing it off to the side like with the rapids, it tends to somehow get in the garage and at least be able to park on the side. Other cars seem to be jammed into each other a little, and there’s some across the street that maybe are going to try or maybe they’re going to feel it’s not wise.

I actually see a kind of shallow spot and, in spite of some rapids ahead of me, I’m able to get about two-thirds of the way over and finally I kind of make it over a little place even though someone thinks I’m kind of crazy to be doing that.

I’m continuing to try to get away from the aliens, or from the zombie-type people. Well it looks like the zombies are going to get me, some aliens that have a lot of power that the zombies will try to touch, come down and seem to give me some protection.

But that means, for some reason, we all have to go to court over this. Maybe the zombies want to claim you and the aliens are giving you some protection. For some reason we have to all go to court.

So I go to the courtroom, and there are several of us from the house that are still okay, who are there, and we have a little strategy. I think I, and somebody else, will be a witness and somebody else would be the main person that’s testifying. We’ve got all of that settled, but then we’re going to have to spend the night in town because we’re going to the trial, so I go to check into the hotel again. I’d forgotten all about the hotel.

When I walk into the hotel they remind me about the wedding. It’s going to be another day or two, and I’ve forgotten all about it, and I don’t know if it’s okay with you or not, but I see that they have this card there where they charged your card and there’s even another little card with some people of the house, so I’m kind of congratulating us, even some of the doofus people that drew little pictures on it, and I’m just kind of in shock because I’d forgotten all about that.

I think that’s when I woke up.

John: This is a dream in which you incorporate, and attempt to catch up with, an energetic expression in the outer by coming from one side down into another. And so the idea is that as a purpose of coming into life you’re to accomplish or do something. You’re to help bring something through, or to find something.

In other words, something works as a magnetic attraction that has meaning to you, and so you make the sojourn through time under the idea that something is destined or meant to happen.

However, that’s kind of a way of projecting yourself. You have a slight projection involved here in terms of how you see yourself coming into light. And however you hold the theme of that, and in holding the theme of that you’re holding a certain balance, and in that balance you’re able to perceive things around you.

It’s just like in the past you used to hold a certain recognition of a certain shamanistic shift or quality that you had that you could hang out in, in spite of what was going on around you. And now you’ve turned this into something that’s an affinity for how it is that you’re able to come, and agree to come down into life, is that you’re going to be somehow supported in some capacity.

But the dilemma that you find yourself running into is, you have to put up with the amnesia of things, where you could become all zombied out, and get lost and estranged, from what it is that you’re bringing forth from one place or state into another.

And so the whole thing has to do with a sequence that’s time-oriented somehow, and then you have all kinds of things that happen in between that are all associated with making you more and more amnesic, or out of balance, with an overall unfoldment. And you go through the daze of that, and the daze of that, until you eventually realize and start to recognize how it is, and what it is, that you have agreed to, that will be okay based upon some idea or understanding or vibration.

And it’s based upon a vibration that you have an affinity for. However, because it’s a manifestation, you’re not sure just how that all comes to pass. You just know that there is something soothing about the vibration that you have an affinity for. You don’t necessarily know the greater detail of it, you just know that there is an affinity.

And then of course there’s the sorting out that has to happen in manifestation because there has to be the cohesion that has to come together. And none of that can find itself if you’re caught in some sort of collective mayhem that stands in the way, with things that gobble up or devour your sense of self. What were some of the other things you talked about?

Jeane: The aliens that were protective that came out of nowhere, the car and the water I had to cross.

John: Yes, those are all parts of the path that try to break through to the other side and you’re now using aliens as kind of an example of one place versus another.

Jeane: They were protective as opposed to the zombies.

John: As one place versus another. It’s still kind of like a memory. Just like you can be in creation now, and the lineage the you’re part of, and however it is that you create a linkage to something more as a transmission stream that you’re connected to, that’s very protective in the face of zombies that are all around you in terms of an energetic that’s astray.

Jeane: It was a long, complex dream. It was hard to pull it out. Like I said, then the wedding and stuff that I’d forgotten about.

John: Well, this whole thing is, is it stays within the context of the dream, where there is a coming back from another place, and in the coming back you come back in order to support and sustain something. And of course you then have to contend with a delirium that you have to go through, and forces that you have to deal with that don’t seem to have any light in them, and seem confused and bizarred out.

And you can’t let that rub off on you because you have to remember why it is, and what it is, about yourself that is here in terms of what its purpose or connection is all about. What is it in service to, so to speak?

You’ve taken one inflection, and you have kind of seen yourself in the light of that inflection being that after the path of Nirvana, or going home, comes the path of servitude, where you can come back and sustain or maintain some understanding that is important for creation.

Before you made the journey back, you were in a state that needed a lot of sorting out, and only after the sorting out could you get to a point where you could move beyond the conditioning of things in the outer. And once you have done that, that means you are kind of free.

But in the state of service you come back then, you venture back, you boldly take the freedom that you have, back into life and run the risk of the delusion all over again. With the difference being that you carry a note that can keep you from getting totally lost.

And so the whole idea of the marriage and the coming together of this, that, or the other is that note that you hear as an echo inside of you, that doesn’t totally go away in the face of the zombies and the lifelessness that you have to contend with.



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