As a general rule, everyone wants to pair up with someone from the opposite sex, and there are many instinctual reasons for this. But through history, women have been seen as lesser than men, and we’re beginning to see that we can have no future without remedying that reality. All people have masculine and feminine within them, and they need to be in balance and harmony for our personal lives to function properly, not to mention that it is a prerequisite for a journey back to God. And that makes it a prerequisite for the human race being able to move forward, as well. (At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)
Jeane: Well, in the dream that I remember, I seem to be a supervisor in an office. And actually it’s kind of like two offices because in one office there’s all women, and in the other office there’s all men – and they’re all police women or men, although they don’t seem to wear uniforms.
And initially what I’m doing in the office, I’m mostly in the office with the women, and I realize that we need to kind of build the relationships between them so I do some kind of… take a day when we do some of those exercises that kind of help bond people, and I kind of see what happens as a result of that.
Then I realize that we need to do more of it, and maybe in another week or a month I’m going to take a day and I do that. And so I’m studying each of them and seeing how I need to pair people up and how many people need to attend it, and I have the same thing going on with the office with the men.
But then I realize the next step is going to be to kind of mix it up, so that first I’ll have to have the day in which I see, does everybody have to go because maybe somebody will take a teaching role or, you know, more of a supervisor role? Everybody needs to have some contact with each other. But then the next step is to build up the relationship between the two offices.
And when I’m looking at all of this it feels like sometimes I’m looking at the names, and I seem to almost see columns, and it’s like people fit in the columns. And I’m studying how to get the columns to relate better to each other, or to people in different places in a column, you know.
And so it’s kind of like this really quiet dream where I never see much action going on. I don’t really quite see the work that people are doing. I’m just seeing how to build some kind of relationships initially kind of within the same people, and then within people that have more differences. So it was like very quiet dreaming.
John: The kind of a dream that’s showing you how to relax, or let go of, as you take into account the overall way things are, to be able to relax and let go of the variables.
To begin with things are set up in which you had a distinction that was drawn between the masculine and the feminine, and that you took into account the orientation towards the feminine mannerisms, as if weaponized in their own way into life, almost as if, you know, one has had to contend with things and has utilized that as a means of being to better cope, or to cope.
What the dream is basically saying is, whatever those simplistic ideas or concepts or whatever they are have been, they have to be released. You have to let go of them, that everything is part of a design that intertwines and interconnects. And to hold out one idea over another, which is becoming a pattern in terms of masculine and feminine, and is apt to get further accentuated even especially if the Earth starts acting up and everything starts falling apart, it’s going to be almost as if the masculine authority over things has got to be stopped by the feminine principles or something – instead of there being a recognition that the two have to come together, and they have to meld together, and they have to work together, and they have to let go of things together, and that nothing is solved by there being a contrast.
And it certainly is a whole lot easier to accept something like that, than to accept the ideas as expressed by the concepts that people grasp, that the masculine is in service to the feminine. And essentially there’s a kind of generic party line that exists, and there is something about that that’s conflictual, and keeps the individual in conflict to have to be oriented to something that’s this and that, and that there is the this and that in life.
There is just one soul, and it’s the world soul, and you can’t go taking and drawing the conclusion, well, you can try to do that, but it weighs on the heart to try to do that. The way you dreamt it and realized there needs to be this nice, comfortable, intertwined letting go. That actually felt good. That was wonderful, that was peaceful to do that. The other was attention that was tearing at itself and tearing at you, and that there can be no breakthrough as long as there is something like that going on.
So what you did is you dreamt an aspect of a wholeness, in which, in order for you to be an overallness, you have to be comfortable with how everything is. You can’t take and sort things out into some sort of progressive unfoldment, as if that progressive unfoldment empowers one thing and dis-empowers something else. Or, in other words, as if there is this warfare that has to exist in terms of how something is coming to pass.
It’s not hard to come to the conclusion that the way things are progressing, in terms of the powers that be and holding onto the established norms and such, is heading towards a catastrophe. And that the ways that something need to perhaps be that honor Earth and honor the feminine, which is Earth, and look out for the well being of the planet and such, that that can be something that can be deemed as an expression, as a mannerism, that is in opposition to all of that, that is fighting to maintain an order in relationship to something that is disoriented.
And an image like that is full of tension. An image like that is full of direness and dourness, and is full of impending doom and gloom; that the answer has to be an acceptance and intertwining, that you can’t have one or the other dominating and, if you do, and if it is like that, it becomes a lot like the Greek gods that tear each other to pieces over some little nuance of things. This is like a way in which the purported story cannot happen, unless it does 180-degree shift, and therefore there has to be a right and wrong or something energetically. And whenever there is this idea of establishing a concept of right or wrong energetically, you end up then with a clash between the masculine and the feminine – because the feminine is always going to be associated with the orientation, and its overallness, that has to do with manifestation and what is proper for manifestation, and the wholeness of manifestation.
And the masculine is always going to be something that is going to be acting in a capacity that is actually coming from a place outside of manifestation, so it’s run amok nature in terms of manifestation is at some deep, deep, deep level almost understandable. And so we sit with our concepts and our ideas that everything happens through manifestation, and therefore if everything happens through manifestation, and everything that’s in the expanse on other levels is also extraneous, then that means the masculine is extraneous, and that means then that you don’t actually integrate. But if there is a stillness and a peace, that stillness and peace incorporates both the contraction and the expansion, and the contraction has to do with the quality that represents manifestation, and the expansion has to do with the quality that represents the cosmos.
So if you’re caught in this idea that it is all happening here, and that this is the highest of all planes, which is a nice way of portraying it, just like the Earth is the center of the universe and everything goes around the universe, which is the old way of thinking of things in an arrogant sense until astronomy came to realize that that’s not necessarily the case, as long as one has this kind of viewpoint, then that viewpoint, that concept alone, instills conflict, because when you sum it all up you have to come down to the standpoint that it’s all about manifestation because it’s the highest of all planes, and therefore the expansive things is subordinate and has to bow down to the manifestation of things. And, therefore, the masculine has to serve the feminine, and then you get into this deal in which to the degree that it’s not, then there has to be war, and there has to be conflict, and there has to be the issue of darkness and light.
And your dream is saying that that’s not right. Your dream is saying that they have to intertwine, they have to work together, they have to lay down their arms, they have to realize that they fit together, that they are as they come together part of a greater whole. And it only makes sense and it has to be that way because if a human being is all that there is, in terms of the human being in its highest form is God, then it’s going to be both the expansive and the contractive. It’s not going to have to be limited to one plane of existence or another. It’s going to have to include all planes of existence, and they all then will make sense, and they all then will work together if they’re treated that way.
You know maybe the better way of trying to define it is: what is the role of the masculine? The role of the masculine is to let go and learn to intertwine with the feminine. What is the role of the feminine? The role of the feminine is to let go and learn to intertwine with the masculine. That’s kind of what your dream is saying, and in that regard there is a peace. There is something that’s okay. Or otherwise you’re always going to be pulled or torn a little this way or that way.
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