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When we are truly enjoying ourselves with friends, it usually has a very natural sense of flow, with no discordant moments or awkward feelings. It happens when we are harmonically synched up, and the energy is all at a similar frequency. If, however, any one person gets in a mood, or gets upset, it can throw off the greater flow for everyone. Now extrapolate this to us and the universe, where we think everything should unfold according to our needs and timing, rather that according to universal design.(At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)

John: In my meditation dream, I’m holding my attention as intently as I can to keep from losing a sensation. I hold it, and I hold it. I’m not moving, staying in tune with a zeroed-in focus to the sense and sensation. 

So, as the dream progresses, when I pick up a woman who is coming home and has arrived from her trip, the setting is such that she is also meeting her boyfriend at the same time. We’re both to meet her at the same time. The pent-up energetic that I’m harboring within, which comes from holding and staying intensely in a focus, comes out. It is as if this sensation had to percolate. 

See, I have an imbalance in the fire energy. I need to hold that in a continuity and a balance or my fire comes out. The ability to touch in that kind of place of a firing out is easily skewered. So it is as if this energetic had to percolate, so to speak, and let off steam. It’s too much; in other words, it just came gushing out. 

So as I go up to greet her, he’s going up to greet her. And my mannerism was too much for the situation. The situation was a woman who had just arrived at a depot is to be simultaneously greeted, because we’re both waiting for her. And the flow to that reception, from me, is overwhelming. It is natural to experience that, in other words, something welling up within that is pent up, but not natural when what is pent-up is coming across too loudly, or too quickly, or too abruptly, or in a way that can’t be handled. That’s not proper zigzagging.

So, in the dream, I need to step back so that things are absorbed. She greets me and her boyfriend simultaneously, she can only handle so much. In other words, the moment needs to be recognized in terms of what is going on in the situation because she can’t meet and greet us both simultaneously if there isn’t adequate space and timing. 

My problem in the dream is knowing how to settle back. I need to let her boyfriend come into the equation, not overwhelm the situation with my presence. When that is done properly, she picks up the flow by saying to her boyfriend, I thought we should take you with us to an ice cream parlor that is on the way where we are going. That is relieving to hear because it indicates I am being taken into account, which apparently I need or I feel left out and am hurt.

So what is missing? In this dream, I am remiss when it comes to tying together a flow. The tying together is meant to be in keeping with the overall unfoldment. My sense of flow is too much. It isn’t the flow that is important, or my sense of things isn’t what is important, it’s the overall general flow that’s important, that takes into account the big picture. So, as a result, what occurs becomes over the top, and a balance and evenness are lacking. 

I do not know how to let what needs to occur, occur as it needs. To not allow this to unfold naturally, that is what is missing. Or the meaning is, in terms of what is missing, the dream is pointing out that I need to take in a situation with a rhythm that is in keeping with the pent-up energy that is in the atmosphere. To flow too much with a thread that is behind an energetic unfoldment is to be over the top, and when over the top I shut off or overwhelm the inner into outer dynamic and take a naturally unfolding scenario into such a pitch that it cannot keep up without there being something that gets frazzled.

A temperance is needed for the flow and attention to embody the overall wholeness. I must greet each aspect in the dream as me, and, when I do, I will immediately know the overall sensation’s timing and flow.

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spiritual-life-coaching-2It is common for us to think, or believe, that we can sort everything out with our brain. But, on our spiritual journey, it doesn’t work that way. Our spiritual life requires the all of us, and comes from inner into outer in life. Connections are made, and pathways are opened up, from the inside, and only then can we truly connect with the outer world. That’s why it has been said that our journey is more about feeling than thinking, because we learn over time to realize when we are connected and when we are not – and that comes from the subtlety of our feeling senses. (At the end of this post there are instructions and a link to download this recording to your computer.)

Jeane: The next dream, the only part that I remember it’s like I’ve gotten together with some family, or friends, and we want to go see my great niece, and her husband, though I seem to be just about their age in the dream, fairly young.

And it must be around the holidays, and they’re at somebody else’s house, so I go with the people that I’m with. And I realize they also want to hook me up with somebody there, because of some common goal we have in mind, like maybe we both want to lose weight or something, we want to do something. So I go with them to this house, and it’s kind of an odd house when you walk in because you go into an upstairs area like a building. It’s like a building at first, like you go into an upstairs area, and then you come to a place that’s almost like a turnstile that’s kind of blocked.

And I start to move something and go that way, and then I change my mind and I go down to the left and that leads me downstairs through the house, and to an outside area, where there’s some picnic tables and that’s where my niece and her husband are – and their friend that everybody’s trying to hook me up with.

So he’s a young man. He’s sitting kind of like on a picnic table, so I must go over and I sit either on a bench or on the ground, not too far from where he is, so that he and I can talk. And it feels like other people disappear, and it feels like he’s kind of interested in our connecting because of some common goal we have that people feel, if we were together, it would be easier to meet that goal. And I seem to be the one that I’m not so sure about this. That was the whole dream, as I recall it.

John: So you’re still playing with this aspect of something that is resourced, so to speak, at a depth inside of yourself, and that it sits there oriented in a way that is blood-lined, or family oriented, or something like that. In other words, there was the greater dimension of yourself that seeks to pull things together.

And that even so, you have that as a frame of reference upon which to lean on, and grow with, and of course that sort of thing helps you get outside of your insecurities and whatnot because you have a basis upon which to lean, and be, which is you, but you have presented to you in the outer in this way because you seem to be better able to live something when it is like that.

Well, there’s still this other dormant quality, or trait, that needs to come out. And so it’s hidden even when you are in the house. In other words, there’s the turnstile. In other words, it’s just not readily there.

But when you come to understand that, in other words, when you go into and do a little in-depthness and come back outside into life, with all of this aspect of yourself working together, in other words it’s like you can come into life and sort it out. I mean you know how to scrutinize and be okay, and not let the mess of what can happen by the little illusions of things, you can clean all of that up, because you have this greater sense.

There’s still more that needs to come out, however, and that more that needs to come out has a designed purpose behind it. And you’re coming to realize that that comes out in relationship to, again, a certain way of you coming to grips with a wholeness in your environment.

In other words, in terms of the guidance of the dream, you’re functioning in terms of it awakening, or coming about, a little differently than me. I have to take and plow around in the dark, and fumble and look for the variable of something that comes through insightfully. In your particular case, you just need to be in an environment in which that is conducive.

In other words, there’s something about the way you carry yourself then, that causes you to be in an environment conducive with how you are, and when that environment, that is conducive to how it is that you need to be in order to be free to allow something to emerge, then it emerges.

In other words, it works a little different for you. You are like the frog, plop in the pond. You’re just in that and it just naturally emerges. And your dream is indicating that there is something that naturally emerges as the circumstances of yourself, as manifestation, in manifestation, as those circumstances emerge, you emerge in terms of your greater beingness. That’s interesting. It doesn’t work that way for me, but it does that way for the feminine, huh?

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